Lie Spotting

I stumbled upon this great talk last year by Pamela Meyer who wrote the book "Liespotting".  Being a lie spotter is a skill.  Many times I am asked about how to go on after a pathological love relationship.  There is not one short answer but having the skill of spotting a lie is a good place to start.  It is important to look for a pattern of behavior...that takes time.  So, while you may be engaging in a new relationship or evaluating the state of a current relationship take some time to develop the skill of lie spotting.  For more information about the book, check out Ms. Meyer's website: www.liespotting.com